rest for the weary

Poor Mitch is working himself to death with the housework. It's a lot to take care of a 5 person home. Laundry alone is a core even when done faithfully every week. If anyone has ideas to help please tell me. My sister is going to try to come help with the bathroom, a load or two of laundry, and dishes when possible. I'll be 18wks Tuesday and have to start slowing down. So I'm basically taking about moral support I can give him, so he knows I appreciate everything. I can feel the baby a lot now. So awesome. It never gets old. With Addy's Bday in a few short hours I'm reminded of the terrible realities of nicu and the ups and downs of a micro preemie. I'll do anything in my power to keep this baby safe and sound until mid november. Anyway this is taking forever bc I'm in bed on my phone. Any thoughts are appreciated!